I have read many stories in which many homes are divided because of skeleton been kept by many women in their marriages which has broken many men's heart.

Normally the truth comes out when a man wins this DV lottery and as part of the requirements a DNA has to be conducted of the kids before you can take them with you.
When this happens and you take the kids to do the DNA then you are told that the kids are not yours.

There was one story I read online in which the Man had three kids with the wife and after the the DNA it was found out that only one kid matched with his DNA.

CAUSES

THE EX FACTOR : There are some women who enter into marriage but can't let off go the ex. She might love the ex but due to finances a man who is ready for marriage will come and marry this woman and a day to the wedding or some days to the wedding, they have the good bye sex. So when this happens the possibility of the woman getting pregnant before marriage is sometimes high because the love for the ex is high and will want to have his baby .

After the wedding the current man will go on the honeymoon with his newly wedded wife and do their own thing. After some weeks and months then pregnancy symptoms will show and you the man might think you are the father of this kid until you win the DV Lottery that is where the truth will come out.

2. There are some men too who are not
Sexually good and this women who are still married run to their exes and have sex with them and give the pregnancy to their husbands.

3. There are some women too who know very well of how their husbands too can't give birth but the man too might not know even though he is very sexually active but will never help or talk to the husband so they know how to deal with it. They then go have sex outside and give it to the husband.

SWAPPING OF BABIES IN THE HOSPITALS

I have also heard of some weird and wicked stories from some big hospitals of which I have no evidence to it.
According to what I have heard so far, during child birth in some of the big hospitals in Ghana there are some people who bribe some nurses with huge sums of money who do swapping of some babies.

This happens when may be a woman has been eager to have a baby boy and still not getting.
Arrangements are made with some nurses who don't have the fear of God in them and this swapping will be done for those who are in need of this babies. Normally it happens when pressure is mounted on a woman by a man who say he wants a baby boy.

EARLY DNA IS IMPORTANT

With the above caption one will ask why am I saying that. Please if you are about to marry and after some months your wife gives birth before you take her out of the hospital to your house do your possible best to Have a DNA test because a lot of things that goes on in this hospitals which I still have no evidence to that according to what I have heard off is not easy. If only you have money do early DNA before you are hit with bad news in the future. This advice goes to all men who are not married yet and are about to do so.

WHAT TO DO WHEN U FIND OUT THE KIDS ARE NOT YOURS AFTER
THE DNA

Hmmm is very sad when you find out that the kids you have with your wife none or some are not yours will make you down and break you.

My brother when this happens remember you have come a long way with this kids and you have shown love to them since child birth. Do your possible best to father them and love them because you might not know who that child would be in future.

I know is very hard but do it bro. Any father who is in this situation already please do not turn your back on this kids, but do well to love them because they are innocent.

Thank you for reading. My write up is long but is worth reading.

Source: Nana Fianko Frederick